I’ve mentioned before that creativity is discovering something about yourself that’s always been there but you just weren’t aware of it until you discovered it and became aware of it.
This embodies my ongoing journey in expressing and articulating my life’s work.
In effect, I can’t just write it all out since I’m writing the story as I’m living it and becoming aware of it, step-by-step. So I don’t know the ending yet.
But each day, I become more and more aware of what’s in front of me and as I do, the story almost writes itself and leads me to where I need to be going.
For example, yesterday in a conversation with ChatGPT, I knew that trying to explain things from where I am at won’t influence, convince, or persuade people to explore the developmental terrain I’ve already been exploring myself. ChatGPT agreed and indicated the following instead.
Meet them where they are
Use their language, not yours.
Use their worldview, not your frameworks.
Use their metaphors, not your RPG cosmology (unless they already resonate).
Asking ChatGPT to elaborate on this, I asked the following.
Perhaps this is where you can help me then.
What is the language, what is the worldview, and what are the metaphors that best express where people in the world are at right now? Or put another way, what exhaustion patterns are people expressing about the world right now?
What ChatGPT went onto to describe was very similar to what I experienced back in 2001 when my life fell apart when the dot-com bubble burst.
To put this in more simpler words, it feels like you’re experiencing a cataclysm.
Not in the sense of a physical one, upheaving and upending the world like an earthquake, but rather a psychological one, upheaving and upending the stable certainty of who you thought you were and what role and story you thought were playing in life.
As I continued to ask additional questions, what became more and more apparent to me, especially upon reflection of the whole conversation, was that I was finally being shown a larger role I was already told I was playing for quite some time now but I wasn’t really aware of what that role actually meant yet.
This role was first mentioned to me by Valdis Krebs when he said the following to me.
You are a bridge.
What’s stranger is that some time later when watching the movie The Man of Steel, there’s a scene we’re Superman’s father tells him the following.
We wanted you to learn what it meant to be human, first. So that one day, when the time was right…you could be the bridge between two peoples.
While this quote was made for the movie, the poignancy of it in relation to my own life now resonates deeply.
In effect, what I’ve learnt about vertical development is that it can teach a person about what it means to be a human being at a deeper level than they’ve already experienced so far within their own life.
In other words, so much of our adult lives we believe is about stability and certainty, yet when we were growing up, we were constantly embracing change and uncertainty, as we progressed through different stages of development.
Yet the big difference is that back then when growing up, you had your parents and society supporting you through these changes and uncertainty. Today, most people don’t have that same support system as an adult because society itself is uncertain of these changes.
In other words, everyone is stepping into unexplored territory as a whole now.
And that’s what this larger role I’m meant to play actually means in terms of expressing my life’s work.
So from where most people are at, standing on the edge of the known world and facing unexplored territory ahead, to where I am at, in having already explored some of this unknown territory, therein lies the gap that I need to bridge as my life’s work.
To put this another way, if I just stop and listen to the world, the exhaustion and pain it’s going through, I will be able to hear what’s emerging from it and in turn doing so, I will be able to bridge it to what’s been emerging from me over the past two decades.
So simply put, when I talk about life as a role-playing game, such as what Roles mean within it, evidently the place to start is where people are at. That being that they find the roles that they’re playing in their own lives exhausting and unfulfilling to play anymore.
And then that leads into making them realize that these are just effectively roles we’re playing, like putting on our parent’s hat or coat when we were younger, so we could pretend to role-play that we were someone else.
In other words, these roles aren’t permanent but fluid. In fact, we often change them fluidly throughout our daily lives without even thinking about it. You could be a professional or manager at work but when you get a call that your child was injured at school, you suddenly switch to being a parent and mother or father again.
And this is what life is asking of us now in this uncertain moment. It is telling us that we have larger roles yet to play within our lives, if we calm ourseives enough to listen to what wants to emerge from us.
This is effectively the call to adventure within Joseph Campbell’s Hero’s Journey. It recognizes that we don’t fulfill just a few roles in life but many, often without being initiated and prepared for them. And understanding life as a role-playing game is just fully becoming aware of this and having the courage to adventurously embrace these newer roles when they come calling.

