Everyone is looking for a hack or a shortcut for life.
But I don’t think you can grasp the insights of a growth and development journey unless you yourself go through the messy aspects of it.
So having someone explain the essence of their journey that took them years to go through isn’t going to work.
The person receiving the essence of it isn’t going to grasp the true meaning of it because they haven’t gone through the experience of it themselves yet.
So the experience of the messy, chaotic journey is where the meaning is actually created and revealed.
So once they begin to go through the experience of it themselves then what the person explained to them earlier will hopefully being to make sense.